Coco de Mer

An amazingly little shop, great little advert:

What really matters is what we need.

Our local community has begun to reel from the loss of three Leathermen.  I only had a casual acquaintance with theses men but the impact of multiple deaths in short time phase, reminded my husband of an earlier time when Leathermen were being morned from the AIDS epidemic.  Another period of loss that many of us only read about or saw a news story of public mornings.

These unrelated deaths still tie us together with the remembrance that life is indeed fragile and temporary.  We cannot expect to keep our looks, health, wealth, friendships or our reputations forever.  Though all of these attributes often weigh heavily in our lives and focus, when a loss of any of them occur, all I really want is a hug.

A hug when given or received connects us skin to skin, heartbeat to heartbeat, breathe to breathe and emotion, energy and power.  All these areas we as kinksters delight in exploring, expanding, reveling in and feel the loss of when they are not available.  Our hugs are the period after play, the welcoming for more play, the invitation for intimacy.

I am grateful I have hugs in my life on a daily basis.   You can have them too. Hug someone you love, like, want to know better, needs it, or to share your good energy, get some of their good energy, or just because it feels good.  It's what we need.

Impact to Nirvana

Okay cheesy title, but great primal fun to pass my power into another body.  The mutual willingness of energy exchange is powerful, stress releasing, hormone inducing, pleasurable, wet making, giggly, primal and all feminine.

There are some bodies I can dance with all night and want them to punch back and some I just want to turn a faucet on and let it pour out of me.  Not in anger, frustration, but that can be stuff that's in me that needs release as well.  And this is the safe, all natural way of doing it.

And the men that exchange that power with me, que wow.  I can't thank them enough, and I know I don't get enough of that good juju.

Let's Play

It's mid July in sunny SoCal, and I stay wet.  The least bit of heat on my skin combined with walking causes arousal.  I can't help, I was built that way.  And I have no complaints.

There is a delicious immediate drop when I have a man naked before me.  Kneeling before me is even better.  I love touching their skin and tasting my own sweat as I stroke their skin, watching their dick dance in the air.

What can be more interesting than the drip of mental pleasure that oozes out of a cock that hasn't even been stroked?

BDSM 101 Class - Tell your curious friends

The 1st steps into BDSM are often the most frightening and the most exciting many people experience. How does one gain the confidence necessary, while still enjoying the novelty of it all?  Bondage - Discipline, Dominant - Submissive, Sadism - Masochism. This is designed for beginners and it offers you an opportunity to explore (either as Top, Bottom, or both) many parts of the wide spectrum that is Safe, Sane, & Consensual BDSM. Experienced players will also be able to learn safety aspects of play they may never have experienced.

July 22, 2010 7-9 pm
$20 in advance
$25 at the door

The Stockroom
2809 W. Sunset Blvd
Los Angeles, CA 90026
213-989-0334

Instructor - Master James Ross

Is a classically trained lifestyle dominant male Leatherman in the scene since 1977. Trained as a slave and progressing from that to trainer he is now a Master with slaves and submissive of different sexualities. He is the co-Founder LA Kink Exploration Society in Los Angeles and spends a good deal of his time volunteering in the kink community.

Fill er up!

Yeah, I'm talking about Saline Infusions.  I had a client this week that sought me out for a saline/session.  And what a session it was.  A wonderful opportunity to take my new obsession and turn on the heat of intense CBT play.  Well it wasn't that intense, he was after all a newbie. But he was quite responsive to the things that are prickly, so you know that was a good sign.  It is such a wonderful, warm, wet feeling when the cock in your vampire glove hands gets harder and harder as you stroke and pull.

It warms the cockles of this Sadist Cunt.