Thought for the Day

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More Adult Talk Please!

First, I must say that I enjoy talking to people about the secret kink that they can finally admit, share and then release the hold it's had on their lives. It's not that their secret fantasy is all that dirty, crazy or potentially shaming that is of interest, but the process you go through to get to them to the memory side.

The positive release of energy is shared and that's what I like. It's when we act on our need to express these desires that becomes powerful for both parties.  It's even more powerful when you have a supportive ear on the other side.  I call it Adult Talk and we need more of it.

I don't know when in your life the need to hide your sexual desires started, but my sexual interest started long before I heard the words No,  so I'm comfortable with expressing my desires for play, sex, relationships and the freedom to pursue them.

Each step into mature adulthood is about acknowledging and respecting those desires within for sexual, emotional, mental and physical needs for fulfillment.  Of course I will add - 'within the confines of the laws and moral standards of your community'.  As a practitioners of BDSM, I have more opportunities to communicate creatively, practically with my mind, body, spirit, soul etc. etc.  While keeping career, family and moral obligations.

So tell me your craziest dreams, fantasies and let's look for ways to make them happen for you.   If you would like to chat privately, call me on NiteFlirt: New Members get 3 FREE Minutes,

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If you are a Sirius Radio listening, you can catch me this Wednesday, March 30th 8:00-11:00pm, PST on Spice Radio, Sirius 824 or XM 248.

Tell me a story, I am always listening.

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Stories to follow.

I love Japan!

I'm like a moth drawn to the flame when I see the vast devastation that Japan is facing.  My childhood memories of living in that part of the world with the wooden houses that I could never understand how they survived the weather let alone the devastation of a wall of water.

The earth is shifting whether we are ready for it or not.  We can manifest the fear, the guilt for not doing something we should, we can plan for the 'what ifs' and we can blame or we can pray for the best.  The story about the man searching for his wife that continues to haunt me.  When all is washed away, who and what are we?

For my own life, now choosing to live as out and as honestly as I possibly can, I thought I had reached the ultimate of living life fully.  But when ALL is stripped away from you but your own life and the clothes on your back, your lifestyle choices still come down to being with those loved ones you shared your life with.

I keep asking what would I do, when faced with this level of destruction?  Am I prepared, can I survive?  Can I pull it together, and rescue my own kin and neighbor?  I damn well better, all the girl scout, camping, survival skills I learned from my Dad should kick in and get the job done.

Shortly after I married, I learned a valuable lesson upon working in a small disorganized crisis situation, that as both Dominants we were able to step in and take charge of situations that needed order restored.  It was a comforting feeling to know you can keep your wits about you when others panic and confusion rules the day.

In the meantime,  I'll go check my earthquake kits and make sure they are up to date.  And leave you with the reminder of the seven P's:  Proper previous planning prevents piss poor performance.  

Make Me Submit!

If I had a nickel for every time a guy says that to me, I'd have a bag of useless nickels.  Really?  I have to make you submit?  Like I have to make you clean your room, or pick up after yourself?  That never works. So don't expect it to work in your kink life either.

Only thing I will force you to do is be honest about:

• Your pain threshold - Bucking up and taking it is plain stupid.
• Your marital status - It's okay I get where you are coming from.  
• Your experience level - Very dangerous for you to get into a scene you don't fully understand how it will play out on your body.
• Your health status - Don't spread your germs please, there is always safe ways to play.
• Your mental health - Very dangerous for you if something in play is triggered where I can't help you if I don't know you need the help. 
• Your expectations -  Guys we know you deep down you want to get off for free.  We all do, but it doesn't work that way for long. Admit it and then be prepared to negotiate what you are going to give.  Make it worth my time.  Since girls are not like boys - quid pro quo on oral service skills probably won't cut it. 

We'll get along much better, I promise. 

BDSM It's Not What You Think!

Come to the free screening of the documentary by Erin Palmquist - "BDSM It's Not What You Think!"

Sunday, March 20th, 3:00 pm
The Stockroom
2811 Sunset
Los Angeles, CA